The Process/Rates

Note: As pornography addiction can be a shameful subject for many, I completely understand that some may choose to keep their identities private. I respect that privacy. Should a person decide to disclose their identity, it will not be shared with any outside person under any circumstance. I understand the need for privacy and any personal information shared with be kept confidential.


Here’s how this will work:

Please read the Disclaimer Page before proceeding.

You’ve decided you want to explore this method of support. First, make connection with me via email at, and in a couple of sentences tell me your situation and your main concerns you’d like me to help with.

After reading your email, I will send you anywhere from 5 to 15 questions about your specific situation that I’d like more information about before we move forward. Do not answer these questions unless you want to move forward with the process.

Upon returning the questions (hopefully within a few days), a $40 USD payment should be made via PayPal to

Your initial payment will get you the following:

Communication via e-mail

After reading your answers to my questions, I will send you a response of no less than 500 words providing support, kindness, observations, suggestions, tools, resources and likely a few more questions. You are encouraged to respond to this email with any further questions. I will send another email of no less than 500 words in response. This is the better option if you’re looking for in-depth conversation/analysis.

Communication via video chat or telephone

First, we will establish an agenda for our call, even if it’s as simple as “Let’s see where this takes us.” Based on that agenda and what you’d like to talk about, we’ll have an exchange that lasts no less than 45 minutes and no more than 75 minutes. Depending on the direction of the call, I will provide support, kindness, observations, suggestions, tools, resources and likely a few more questions.

Future interaction:

If you wish to continue in a peer counseling relationship with me after our emails or video chat/telephone call, the option is open to continue our communication at the rate of $30 for any of the choices listed above, re-upping as many times as you feel necessary.